Thomas H. Brand 02/06/2022 Thomas H. Brand 02/06/2022

Red Flags in Polyamory: One-Sided Polyamory

It doesn't matter why or how polyamory can become one-sided. All that matters is the Red Flag things are becoming toxic.

Thomas H. Brand 29/05/2022 Thomas H. Brand 29/05/2022

Red Flags in Polyamory: Aggressive Fairness

While fairness between relationships seems like a no-brainer, it's very easy for this line of thinking to become toxic if you go about it the wrong way.

Thomas H. Brand 15/05/2022 Thomas H. Brand 15/05/2022

Is Monogamy Always Toxic?

Does monogamy’s history mean it can never be anything other than a tool of the Patriarchy?

Thomas H. Brand 26/04/2022 Thomas H. Brand 26/04/2022

Everyone Wanted Her, But No One Wanted Me

If only I’d known this was the most difficult part of being non-monogamous

Thomas H. Brand 15/04/2022 Thomas H. Brand 15/04/2022

“Rules” vs “Agreements” in Polyamorous Relationships

You should avoid hurting your partner because you don't want to, not because you can't.

Thomas H. Brand 10/04/2022 Thomas H. Brand 10/04/2022

6 Green Flags in Polyamory

How to tell if someone is ready for polyamory, and has your best interests in mind

Thomas H. Brand 28/03/2022 Thomas H. Brand 28/03/2022

Can We Please Leave Non-Monogamy Out of The Will Smith / Chris Rock Drama?

Those of us who have chosen to be ambassadors for this lifestyle are left sighing in frustration.

Thomas H. Brand 23/03/2022 Thomas H. Brand 23/03/2022

Do I Have To Make Friends With My Metamour?

How close should you be with your partner’s other partner?

Thomas H. Brand 14/03/2022 Thomas H. Brand 14/03/2022

6 Relationship Models You Need to Know

There is no “right” way to create a polyamorous relationship, so let explore some of the many different options available.

Thomas H. Brand 17/02/2022 Thomas H. Brand 17/02/2022

Does Monogamy Even Exist?

It might be time to change the way we define relationships and step away from traditional ideas.

Thomas H. Brand 13/02/2022 Thomas H. Brand 13/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - We are all polyamorous

And today, for our last post, I wanted to talk about one of the most universal lessons I've taken on board: the fact we are all polyamorous.

Thomas H. Brand 12/02/2022 Thomas H. Brand 12/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - Monogamy and Polyamory are the same thing

There’s a big secret about the polyamorous lifestyle. And I believe I’ve uncovered it. And, once you know it, it blows the whole monogamy versus polyamory debate wide open.

Polyamory and monogamy are the same thing!

Thomas H. Brand 11/02/2022 Thomas H. Brand 11/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - Relationships Skills = Universal Life Skills

How I came to the realisation that my job had taught me the skills needed for polyamory.

Thomas H. Brand 10/02/2022 Thomas H. Brand 10/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - The Hidden Truth About Breakups

How ethical non-monogamy and the end of my marriage taught me the truth about how to live through a breakup.

Thomas H. Brand 09/02/2022 Thomas H. Brand 09/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - Taking control of my own happiness

Only I have control of my own wellbeing, but I only came to any clear understanding of this when polyamory forced me to actively address my relationship with relationships.