Tom Brand 14/11/2022 Tom Brand 14/11/2022

Is it Okay to Keep Being Polyamorous a Secret?

Is it okay to keep being polyamorous a secret?

Everyone gets to choose how open they are. And unfortunately, sometimes people have no choice but to hide their polyamory from the world for their own safety.

Tom Brand 01/11/2022 Tom Brand 01/11/2022

6 Reasons You Shouldn’t Try Polyamory

Like so many things in life, if you come into polyamory for the wrong reasons, your journey will be forever tainted. You can't build a house on a bad foundation, and a relationship is no different. You'll never find happiness in a relationship if you began it for the wrong reasons.

Tom Brand 01/10/2022 Tom Brand 01/10/2022

Is Polyamory Cheating?

It's a question many of us find distasteful, so often do we hear it. But as much as we hate hearing it, it can't be denied it's an understandable mistake. So let’s take a look at it, shall we?

Tom Brand 04/08/2022 Tom Brand 04/08/2022

(Another) 10 Words You Should Know Coming Into Polyamory

Another delve into the language of ethical non-monogamy.

Tom Brand 20/07/2022 Tom Brand 20/07/2022

How To Make Polyamory Work for You When Things Get Hard

Ethical non-monogamy isn't a homogeneous blob. When you decide to move beyond monogamy, you don't simply take off one suit and put on another. And herein lies the problem. It's a fundamental misunderstanding of what ethical non-monogamy is.

So I want to talk about something I call The Polyamory Sweetshop.

Tom Brand 06/07/2022 Tom Brand 06/07/2022

How Do I Ask Out My Friend’s Girlfriend?

While it’s not a deal-breaker in polyamory, can you suppose ask out your friend's girlfriend when that friend is right there?

Thomas H. Brand 23/03/2022 Thomas H. Brand 23/03/2022

Do I Have To Make Friends With My Metamour?

How close should you be with your partner’s other partner?

Thomas H. Brand 14/03/2022 Thomas H. Brand 14/03/2022

6 Relationship Models You Need to Know

There is no “right” way to create a polyamorous relationship, so let explore some of the many different options available.

Thomas H. Brand 17/02/2022 Thomas H. Brand 17/02/2022

Does Monogamy Even Exist?

It might be time to change the way we define relationships and step away from traditional ideas.

Thomas H. Brand 13/02/2022 Thomas H. Brand 13/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - We are all polyamorous

And today, for our last post, I wanted to talk about one of the most universal lessons I've taken on board: the fact we are all polyamorous.

Thomas H. Brand 12/02/2022 Thomas H. Brand 12/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - Monogamy and Polyamory are the same thing

There’s a big secret about the polyamorous lifestyle. And I believe I’ve uncovered it. And, once you know it, it blows the whole monogamy versus polyamory debate wide open.

Polyamory and monogamy are the same thing!

Thomas H. Brand 11/02/2022 Thomas H. Brand 11/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - Relationships Skills = Universal Life Skills

How I came to the realisation that my job had taught me the skills needed for polyamory.

Thomas H. Brand 10/02/2022 Thomas H. Brand 10/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - The Hidden Truth About Breakups

How ethical non-monogamy and the end of my marriage taught me the truth about how to live through a breakup.

Thomas H. Brand 09/02/2022 Thomas H. Brand 09/02/2022

Polyamory Week 2022 - Taking control of my own happiness

Only I have control of my own wellbeing, but I only came to any clear understanding of this when polyamory forced me to actively address my relationship with relationships.