Thomas H. Brand 13/02/2021 Thomas H. Brand 13/02/2021

Polyamory Week 2021: Red Flags

What are the most common red flags in polyamory? Because being polyamorous doesn’t mean you can avoid getting hurt in relationships.

Thomas H. Brand 12/02/2021 Thomas H. Brand 12/02/2021

Polyamory Week 2021: The People Who Pick Sides

Neither Polyamory nor Monogamy is inherently better than the other, and some people need to stop seeing it as a battle that needs to be fought.

Thomas H. Brand 11/02/2021 Thomas H. Brand 11/02/2021

Polyamory Week 2021: Hiding Your Polyamory

We should all be proud and open about who we are. But sometimes there are reasons people need to keep parts of themselves a secret.

Thomas H. Brand 10/02/2021 Thomas H. Brand 10/02/2021

Polyamory Week 2021: How The Hell Do You “Polyamory”, Anyway?

Stepping into polyamory is stepping into the unknown. Or, at the very least, stepping into the only vaguely understood. It can be easy to feel that you are something “doing it wrong”.

Thomas H. Brand 09/02/2021 Thomas H. Brand 09/02/2021

Polyamory Week 2021

This year I’m going to delve a little into the darker side of polyamory and all the missteps, misconceptions, and misadventures that await you.

Thomas H. Brand 02/02/2021 Thomas H. Brand 02/02/2021

Get Ready for Polyamory Week 2021

From February 9th to 15th, check here Polyamory Week 2021.

Thomas H. Brand 15/02/2020 Thomas H. Brand 15/02/2020

Polyamory Week 2020 - The Future

It's the last day of Polyamory Week 2020. So where are things headed for me going forward?

Thomas H. Brand 14/02/2020 Thomas H. Brand 14/02/2020

Polyamory Week 2020 - I Don't Do Valentine's Day

To celebrate Valentine’s Day, I’d just like to say I hate Valentine’s Day.

Thomas H. Brand 13/02/2020 Thomas H. Brand 13/02/2020

Polyamory Week 2020 - “More Than Two” by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert

There is no clear and easy resource to tell you how to “do” ethical non-monogamy. And just because someone’s been involved in the scene longer doesn’t mean they know more than you, or are necessarily doing it “better”.

Thomas H. Brand 12/02/2020 Thomas H. Brand 12/02/2020

Polyamory Week 2020 - My Polyamory

Part of the reason for engaging with Polyamory Week was to fill people in about our situation. Frankie and I decided we weren’t going to make a big deal about what we’re doing. But it’s also something we want to celebrate.

Thomas H. Brand 11/02/2020 Thomas H. Brand 11/02/2020

Polyamory Week 2020 - What Polyamory means to me

Polyamory means different things to different people.

For me, polyamory is the freedom of possibility. In short, it opens up new experiences to explore the world without traditional views becoming barriers.

Thomas H. Brand 10/02/2020 Thomas H. Brand 10/02/2020

Polyamory Week 2020 - What is Polyamory?

I’m going to start with the assumption everyone reading this understands monogamy, being the standard default relationship in western culture. So default, in fact, that a lot of people never even consider there being alternatives.

Thomas H. Brand 09/02/2020 Thomas H. Brand 09/02/2020

Polyamory Week 2020

I’m proud of my life, the choices I’ve made, and the people that those choices have led me to. I will never be a polyamory-evangelist, but I love the idea of spreading awareness of the lifestyle.